Monday, April 22, 2013

God's Secondary Calling


Dear Friends,

The primary call of God in our lives is our relationship with Him.  But there is also a secondary call on our lives.  As Os Guinness has noted in his book The Call, this secondary call is to tasks or vocations – the work God has appointed us to do.  This includes both career plans and the minor daily tasks that come as part of everyday life.  We can experience a sense of calling every day as God sets our agendas.  Part of God’s plan for all His people is to put His work in our hands, and part of being spiritually mature is this sense of calling to this work.

God doesn’t leave us guessing what our job is, either.  When He called Jeremiah, he had very specific instructions for him that included what He wanted Jeremiah to do, where He wanted him to do it, and what the results would be.  God also gave Jeremiah a small glimpse into the big picture.

God told Jeremiah, “Before you were born I set you apart [consecrated you for my special use]; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations” (Jeremiah 1:5).  God commissioned, appointed, or ordained Jeremiah as his spokesman before the foundation of the world.  And one day, Jeremiah became aware of his divine appointment.

Are you aware of your divine appointment?  Are you convinced about God’s truth concerning His lost world and what He wants you to do about it?  Your appointment and my appointment will be different from Jeremiah’s appointment, but all will be just as important as others in the bigger scheme of things.
Again, in his book The Call, Os Guinness says:

Our primary calling as followers of Christ is by him, to him, and for him.  First and foremost we are called to Someone (God), not to something (such as motherhood, politics, or teaching) or to somewhere (such as the inner city or Outer Mongolia).  Our secondary calling, considering who God is as sovereign, is that everyone, everywhere, and in everything should think, speak, live, and act entirely for him.  We can therefore properly say as a matter of secondary calling that we are called to homemaking or to the practice of law or to art history. But these and other things are always the secondary, never the primary calling.  They are “callings” rather than the “calling.”  They are our personal answer to God’s address, our response to God’s summons. Secondary callings matter, but only because the primary calling matters most.

So often we can get thoroughly fed up with the callings, or tasks, that we do for God in Christian service.  If we don’t have our primary calling overruling and overshadowing our secondary callings, we quit or at least lose all joy in the journey.  We also need to sense the huge importance of our secondary callings.  These callings have been as much in the mind of God for us as was our primary calling.  Knowing this changes our attitude toward everything we do.

You need to ask yourself, What is driving my ministry activity? Are you running the church nursery because someone at church asked you to or because you believe that God (who is calling the shots) nudged that person to ask you to?  Are you convinced that this activity you are engaged in is the reason God made you in the first place?

A cartoon in a Christian magazine showed an old lady sitting in the church nursery in a rocking chair.  She had been there a long time.  The caption underneath the cartoon said, “I only came in here 30 years ago because Hilda wanted to go to the bathroom!”  You can laugh at this, unless you are the one who has been stuck in that same rocking chair and are not sure you should have been there.

If you find yourself in a similar dilemma, let me ask you this: What has kept you at your post? If God has kept you there because you discerned that this was one of your secondary callings, then you will be confident, happy, and satisfied to be there.  If, on the other hand, you are there because Hilda asked you to be there or because no one else would take a turn, or just out of sheer habit, you will have no joy in the doing.  You run the risk of looking back and asking yourself, What could I have done with all those hours spent in that rocking chair?

A missionary in the Caribbean once told me, “I have served at this post for thirty-six years.  I have been a missionary wife and full-time pastor’s wife all this time.  If I have one regret, it’s that I have been in the pew every time the church door was open.  I have not missed one wedding or funeral.  Looking back, I question why. I think of many, many times I did not need to be there. I realize that I could have accomplished so much if I had allowed God to tell me where He wanted me and what He wanted me to do and not let others’ expectations drive my actions.”

How do you know if you are truly in God’s secondary calling on your life?  Listen to God’s still small voice.  He will tell you.  And then, with some strange internal knowledge, you’ll say, Yes, this is the particular secondary calling He had in mind for me before He made me.

In His Love,

Jill Briscoe
Executive Editor
Just Between Us Magazine



4 comments:

  1. "If, on the other hand, you are there because Hilda asked you to be there or because no one else would take a turn, or just out of sheer habit, you will have no joy in the doing."
    So true! and that trap of no one else will take a turn! Sometimes we must say 'No' in order to say 'Yes"' to God. Warmest, MJ
    A friend and I were on this subject this very morning. Thanks.

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  2. Thank you, so very much, for that encouraging reminder today. Sometimes I feel so weary in my secondary calling as pastor's wife and homeschool mom...this was a lifeline for me when I read it this morning. Blessings to you.

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  3. Great post. Caused me to stop and think and pray (which I should be doing on a regular basis). Blessings!
    Barb Winters :-)
    http://inthemidstof.wordpress.com/

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  4. This is what I was suppose to read today [0r maybe last year]. But it definitely helped to understand the 'WHY','What' & 'Where' God wants me. I am the type of person when I make a commitment to someone, something 0r somewhere to be it is very difficult for me to NOT. Yes overridden by feelings of guilt. I have prayed & prayed as to what to do. But I like my children don't always listen to the quiet voice inside. Thank You so much for the insightful reminder of wisdom. May Gods Blessing Always be upon you

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