Monday, August 15, 2011


by Jennie Allen

A few weeks ago I sat down across from a good friend. We’ve done life and ministry together for years. She came over to share some things she recently heard someone else say about me, fearing they might be true. They were selfish, ugly things, and upon hearing them the room started spinning and my stomach turned over. It was one of those moments when you want to fight someone, or retreat and cry all night in a pillow.

Nothing she said was close to true. I felt misrepresented, misunderstood and judged. I was as mad as I was hurt.

Anger is my reaction when my rights are being taken from me. We get angry about what we think we deserve. I think most of my life I have held on to a right to be understood. These are often the times I get most mad at my husband or those around me. I think I deserve to be understood and represented fairly.

As followers of Christ, what are our rights?

I have been crucified with Christ; it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me. Galatians 2:20 (NKJV)

God is calling us to a surrender that is so resolute, so final that to lift our head in defense or anger would seem insane – ridiculous even. I am a bond servant of God Almighty. He is my defender. I answer to Him. Whatever wave of attack or injustice – from long grocery lines to slander – God’s call is to let it wash over me without a fight.

To one who strikes you on the cheek, offer the other also. Luke 6:29 (NKJV)

Why would anyone live this way?

There is this mercy that runs out of God, and with it an expectation that mercy births more mercy… love births more love.

When I read the Scriptures I hear God saying to me, “You that know Me, you give up your lives as I did. I’ll help you and fill you. I will show you when and where to lay down your rights. But let’s start with your life, your expectations, your money, your family’s approval, your right to a family, your right to move quickly, your right to be successful, your right, Jennie, to be understood. Let’s start with these. Die to them.”

Turn the other cheek and die to your rights. What if God says these powerful words because He knows that turning cheeks could transform this planet? He knows that this selfish race of people would watch a ridiculous and radical abandonment of rights and insane love, and perhaps they would see God?

What if I am missing the mission of my life because I want to hold on to a few selfish rights and visions for my life? What if freedom is letting go of the very things I think I must have to be free?

What rights are you fighting for?

Jennie Allen is a Bible teacher who is passionate about inspiring a new generation of women to encounter the invisible God. Raised in a Christian home, Jennie heard about God her entire life but not until high school did she see her need for Him. Since that time she has been teaching groups of girls and young women about her God. Her first Bible study, Stuck: The Places We Get Stuck and the God Who Sets Us Free, will release in October 2011. To sample Stuck, visit

For more info on Jennie, visit


  1. Just today my memory work of Psalm 37 helped me to humble myself and tell my friend that I was sorry for being angry at her comments. Psalm 37: 1-11

    "Fret not thyself because of evildoers, neither be thou envious against the workers of iniquity. For they shall soon be cut down like the grass, and wither as the green herb. Trust in the LORD, and do good; so shalt thou dwell in the land, and verily thou shalt be fed. Delight thyself also in the LORD: and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart.
    Commit thy way unto the LORD; trust also in him; and he shall bring it to pass. And he shall bring forth thy righteousness as the light, and thy judgment as the noonday. Rest in the LORD, and wait patiently for him: fret not thyself because of him who prospereth in his way, because of the man who bringeth wicked devices to pass. Cease from anger, and forsake wrath: fret not thyself in any wise to do evil. For evildoers shall be cut off: but those that wait upon the LORD, they shall inherit the earth. For yet a little while, and the wicked shall not be: yea, thou shalt diligently consider his place, and it shall not be. But the meek shall inherit the earth; and shall delight themselves in the abundance of peace."

  2. I agree that there are many times that we are to put down the "sword" and turn the other cheek and not fight. But in today's world I need to fight for the rights of my children and grandchildren. Our country is in moral decay and for that I need to fight. Dying to myself is a process and hard to do but a must. But standing up and being heard as a Christian woman, mom, is something I know is the right thing to do. I love your blogs, very inspiring and challenging.

  3. That is beautiful. Forgiveness always feels like a miracle to me. It never comes without a drop-dead fight inside. Thank you for sharing such beautiful verses. Some of my very favorites.

  4. Jennie your vision is powerful and needful in our world of increasing self and lawlessness...just listen to the news! may the social media become a channel for true change and your God-given insights, passion and love for young women unleash a huge wave of salvation, healing & redemption.
    bless you, rev jenni ho-huan, SIngapore

  5. Leslie Dawn NeagleAugust 23, 2011 at 12:12 AM

    Your welcome Jennie. I'm grateful for Revive Our Hearts for assigning us bloggers these verses; I print them out, put them in a gallon zip lock bag & postal tape it to my shower. And when I brush my teeth I sing my verses♫Morning & bed time♫. I like what my old preacher said, "When I do something wrong it's Dennis, when something's God!" Incredible Grace!~Love, Leslie Neagle

  6. Ruth- I agree with you. We must use our voices. Rarely though in our culture is anger being directed in a godly way. Ultimately surrender is not waving a white flag but surrendering to a person who can lead us in his perfect will. Thanks for your thoughts. I love hearing others insight. It is a difficult topic.